Hexi, youre making quite strong assumptions, probably based on your own experience. My experience is different; Lots of men are very emotionally intune to their partner.
To go back to your question Stephanie. Youve been with him relatively short. Therefore you could maybe look into his past and his past relationships a bit deeper. A background check also could be an option. Apart from that the most important question is whether this guy makes you happy. The fact he masturbates or looks at other women in itself isnt interesting, its the way he does it and makes you feel. It sounds like his actions are feeling 'off' to you. Why not openly discuss this with him. If he isnt open to discuss these things with you or at least makes effort for you than ask yourself why you are with him.
I agree with Hexi. But why not check out your guy?
There are warm and fuzzy guys, and then there is yours. There are all kinds. But he doesn't sound sociopathic to me either, unless there is more to the story.
I hate romantic comedies. Too unrealistic;-)
Anywho, whether you believe it or not isnt the point. A partner (a guy) makes effort to get/understand you and cares about what you feels or not. Whether he truly understands those feelings, relates to them, thats a different question. Get it Hexi?
DB! What up dawg? Are you still getting your insights 'fix' from this ( and the other?) site?