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Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

NO! NO! You listen to me Toby, I'm not emailing you. Yahoo Mail records all emails, so does mail.de. You just ******* listen. Du spreche ein wenig Deutsch, Ja? Talk here, now. I don't trust you, not for a second. I am not fooled.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Oh, No!
Ze Germans are angry! Im so scared! Help me someone, The Germans!
I'm not scared of you, now move along.
WhiteWolf - This is were your mocking and insulting would really come in handy. Now, Unleash Hell! :D

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

He's not here to get me. He's here for you. Germans are dangerous people. You should know that, Toby. They spanked you in WWII and now you're gonna get spanked again!

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Gentlemen--

This Forum is intended to host comments and questions which pertain to the www.dr-robert.com website. This means questions and comments which have to do with psychology, psychotherapy, human potential, etc. Please stop using it for this kind of foolish conversation. Your mutual insults lead no place worthwhile. All you are doing with this cheap palaver is illustrating the sad side of the human ego.

And while you are at it, please stop the "is there a God" debates. That kind of talk goes nowhere either.

Thanks.

Website: www.dr-robert.com

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

I find that there is a bond created after engaging someone in a heated debate. If you can force them to laugh.. somehow it breaks the ice nicely.

For instance. Toby probably started off untrusting of me. But now he knows I'm just joking when I toss out the national pride jokes. Also he's not afraid of me anymore. He is more open. Vunerable to attack!! ...


Is that "Fight Club" therapy? Forcing people to face their fears or death does yield results quickly. People always tell me they want to do things but lose their courage at the last minute. I think people who face death are more quick to act and less hesitant. So to appriciate life you have to first fear losing it?

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

For instance. Toby probably started off untrusting of me. But now he knows I'm just joking when I toss out the national pride jokes.

Also he's not afraid of me anymore. He is more open. Vunerable to attack!! ...


ALL the above are true. :-)


Also, related to psychology, I learned that psychopaths aren't all bad people or "evil".

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

dr-robert
Gentlemen--

This Forum is intended to host comments and questions which pertain to the www.dr-robert.com website. This means questions and comments which have to do with psychology, psychotherapy, human potential, etc. Please stop using it for this kind of foolish conversation. Your mutual insults lead no place worthwhile. All you are doing with this cheap palaver is illustrating the sad side of the human ego.

And while you are at it, please stop the "is there a God" debates. That kind of talk goes nowhere either.

Thanks.
thank you for say that. im is thinking they did STOPPED now because they does RESPECTS you for be smart like usual people does. that WHY they probably will only LISTENS to you and you be ONLY one who can gets them UNDER control. so thank you for say this. im ALSO agree with it.
i did TRIED same and almost did succeeded but not ALMOST.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

I see that internet jabber everywhere and it really ticks me off. How can you type all that without stopping and saying "Wait, this is absolutely and undeniably idiotic."(I'm sure someone could say the same thing for what I just typed, the right move would be to leave this forum if I don't like it, but I'm a P-R-I-C-K...) Besides, internet debates are pointless, it is not a real debate unless you're within fists reach of your enemy/opponent/adversary/foe/conflicting moron.

By the way, I don't know about anyone else. but I got a "Capt.Picard" feeling from Dr.Robert.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Yeah, we kind of left the subject of psychology a while ago... Sorry.

And while you are at it, please stop the "is there a God" debates. That kind of talk goes nowhere either.


Why does everyone dismiss the subject of God and faith as if it wasn't anything to do with psychology?

But, hey, it's your forum.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Everything i post has some alterior motive behind it. Like i said at one point, i've replied with 5 different personalities. It's meaningless to everyone else, even me to be honest but it's fun to see how people change their tones so rapidly. You can't get that in real life as people get akwward when you ask them, out of the blue, things like "don't you think eugenics is a good idea in theory?"

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Toby

Why does everyone dismiss the subject of God and faith as if it wasn't anything to do with psychology?

But, hey, it's your forum.


Because the topic way, way too subjective to hold any meaningful discussions about. It's like asking a room full of peoplw what their favourite music is and then debating it.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

That's a bad example. People debating music can elaborate on their opinion by explaining their music is better because of tone, rythm, style, etc.

Religion is faith. There is no scientific evidence to suggest there is a God and not scientific evidence to suggest there isn't. So it's all down to faith, a concept it appear many people cannot grasp.

Hexi, A question I wanted to ask you before.... Have you ever taken the PCLR psychopathy checklist? If not its here: http://www.arkancide.com/psychopathy.htm
If you have, what did you score? :-)

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Toby--


That
is not quite true. Yes, there is no scientific evidence to suggest
that God exists, but there is a great body of scientific evidence
which suggests that God does not exist. This consists in all the hard
evidence which explains why the world is as it is without the
need for God as an explanatory factor.


Occam's
Razor states that, "When competing hypotheses are equal in other
respects, one should select the hypothesis that introduces the fewest
assumptions and postulates the fewest entities while still
sufficiently answering the question." In other words, the
simplest explanation is probably the correct one. This means that
because there are naturalistic explanations for everything we see and
know, there is no reason to postulate "God," which would
just add another unnecessary "entity."


Obviously,
this does not prove that there is no God, because one cannot
prove a negative, but it does obviate or eliminate the need to
imagine a "God" as an explanatory factor for anything.


Since
Occam's Razor (or any other logical method) does not, and cannot,
prove "no-God," the God conversation always devolves
into a debate about so-called "faith." Since faith is by
definition not logical (Tertullian: "I believe it because
it is absurd"), a logical or scientific discussion about the
existence of God always breaks down, and often ends in name-calling
such as what I am seeing here on the Forum. This is unfortunate
because the name calling buries the issue, so that what is being
debated is no longer the existence of God at all, but rather who is
superior in the debate, which means exactly nothing.


If
you believe in God, Mazel Tov! Congratulations for being able to believe in an idea
which makes you happy and removes the fear of death. If you do not believe in God, Mazel Tov!.
Congratulations for your understanding and embrace of a naturalistic universe.

Website: www.dr-robert.com

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

A logical or scientific discussion about the
existence of God always breaks down, and often ends in name-calling
such as what I am seeing here on the Forum


Yes, that is very true. I cannot say that I don't play my part.
The main argument on here against the existence of a God is that if God existed, then why couldn't he just appear to us all?...
Well, He could simply appear and prove to the whole world that he existed But if He did that, there would be no need for faith, and faith we're taught that without faith, it's impossible to please God.

Something I often use to counter people telling me of the apparent inconsistencies and contradictions of the bible, is that up until the 1500's people still believed the earth was flat. The Bible however talks of the Earth as a "circle". The Bible acknowledges a round Earth thousands of years before anyone proves that it actually is indeed round.

There, upsettingly, are still many people in the world that insist on forcing their religious views upon others, be it a belief in God, or a disbelief, and insist that religion should never be questioned, scrutinised or examined, the opposite to the teaching of the Bible. And those who choose to exercise their God given right to freedom of speech are condemned to death, condemned to spend the rest of all eternity in Hell, which in my opinion, does not exist.

The universe displays such amazing design, there must have been a divine Designer.
Scientifically, if protein molecule percentages had of been just a few percentage points off, the Earth would not exist. The chances of us existing in Protein Molecules is 1 in 10/243. That's ten with 243 zeros.

If you believe in God, Mazel Tov! Congratulations for finding some idea
which makes you happy and removes the fear of death.


Thank you.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Dr. Robert, god bless his soul (and for the irony challenged, that god thing was deliberate) at least provided some meaty intellectual give and take, back and forth. So did a few others. And he’s right about the flame war thing. I find trading insults on an internet forum pointless and juvenile. I suppose if people need to act stupid on the internet as an outlet for their otherwise mind numbingly useless existences, than by all means, go for it. But really, where did the smart, thoughtful people go?

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Daniel, this is exactly why pseudo-intellectuals like yourself are annoying. You miss the whole point of the banter, can't see the meanings behind it and everything that isn't longwinded trite is not classified as "intellectual".

If i wrote and explained that in 6 paragraphs you would praise it for being "intellectual".

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Hexi love:

Awww, you find me annoying? I'm touched. But since you love honesty, your comment was vapid. Mistaking pabulum for "banter" is vapid. The cure for vapidity: reading. Go read a book. The expansion of your intellectual horizons will do you some good.

Go on now.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Daniel Birdick
Hexi love:

Awww, you find me annoying? I'm touched. But since you love honesty, your comment was vapid. Mistaking pabulum for "banter" is vapid. The cure for vapidity: reading. Go read a book. The expansion of your intellectual horizons will do you some good.

Go on now.


See, this is exactly what i meant. You could have said "you're stupid, go read a book" but noooo you need to write 8 sentences instead of 1. The point of condesending sarcasm is that the target doesn't get it, by the way. Also, look how easily you've "fallen" to my level by responding to an obvious bait?

Re: Hexi LOL

Hexi
-------
You can't talk... You counted the number of sentences... :-) LOL

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

I've always been a bit of an instigator. It's because I like to fight and I know people like Daniel don't. Sure he will put up a resistance but I know my will is stronger than his.


Again Gray Cur – really? This is a joke right? Your proof that your will is stronger than mine is what, intellectually bankrupt commentary on an internet forum? And I should lower myself to fight you because…

I’m going to go ahead and give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you are being ironic. So…. LOL. I guess.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

And Ecce Homo… please stop stalking me!


LOL! Well Daniel, it's good to see that you are doing... well... whatever it is you are doing when you write these comments.

I must say though, only a mind that truly believes the world revolves around him could believe that I leave comments solely because of you. Yes, it is true. Running across your name in relation to the conversation you had with Dr. Robert was what bought me here, but I didn't go looking for you. And I leave comments here for reasons that are entirely my own.

Having said that, this has been an educational experience for me, and for that, I owe you and Whitewolf a debt of gratitude. And thanks again to Dr. Robert for providing this forum to begin with. I do hope this forum can get back to being a space for people who need with their issues too.

You aren’t a saint. You’re just plain weird.


I suppose learning to love unconditionally would seem weird to you, wouldn't it? That's ok. I am just glad that my self understanding has no connection to your opinion of me.

Take care Daniel and by the way, I love you! I know. Totally weird. :-)

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

I'm concerned that Ecce Homo lacks the emotional integrity to withstand social bombardment.

In other words... don't break him.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

But if he were to "break" you could fix him again, right? :-)

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

I'm concerned that Ecce Homo lacks the emotional integrity to withstand social bombardment.


I knew you cared! LOL!

Seriously though, I don’t put much stock in arguing or defending or name calling and so on. I haven’t gotten much value out of it myself nor have I seen the wisdom in it when I see other people engaging in conflict, verbal or physical. And I get that this view is not popular, especially on this forum as of late. I don’t think arguing and/or fighting verbally is wrong and that you or others should stop. It’s just not for me. Truth does not need defending. It simply is what it is. Egos, on the other hand, never run out of things to fight about and for!

And it’s all good.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Ecco, how's it going there in your fantasy land? To say such rubbish like "Truth does not need defending" makes you look horribly naive. Tell me, have you ever read a single history book? I know my tone is "provocative" but i just want to explicitly express my disdain.

Toby, that was utterly besides the point. I had to count them to make a point. :)

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Hexi,

My world is just fine, thanks for asking. :-) I have read loads of books, on many subjects. Your understanding of truth is… limited. Unnecessarily so. Truth cannot be found in what is read in books. Facts can, but not truth. It’s bigger than that.

I understand why you believe what you believe. I get that it makes sense to you. I even get that you felt compelled to express your disdain. You were completely successful in that expression. So that’s good. Um… honestly, I don’t know what else to say to you because I’ve made it pretty clear that I don’t defend because I don’t need defending. I don’t argue because I can’t see anything worth arguing about. So there you go. I celebrate your freedom to believe precisely what you wish to believe, to examine what you want and to leave unexamined what you want.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

You missed my point entirely. Truth is very often obscured on purpose and if no one defends their point of view, humanity would be lost. That is what i meant with reading history. You read history, then you read the same history by another author and you have 2 different histories. If you don't care about the truth and instead are content with a subjective view then that's your choice. I on the otherhand wish that my views are challenged with logic and reasoning.

Re: Enough with the psychopath crap!

Ah I see. You are right Hexi. I did miss your point. Thank you for clearing that up.

All I can say is that there is a reality larger than logic and more profound than human reasoning. As such, you can only see it. It can't be argued or debated, only seen or not, which is why I left debating behind long ago. Don't take my word for it. Come see for yourself. Or not. The choice is yours.