My question is this: I was in a relationship for five years with a women. I was in love with her. She told me the same how she felt. She cheated on me and left! I I am appalled that she did this! I'm finding it difficult to cope with this emotionally. I really would like her back but the question of trust concens me.
Whats your best advice to repair the relationship or should I move on. How can I deal with this emotionally?
Everyone deals with emotions differently, there is no simple code of conduct. If she cheated on you, she will again, in most cases. Only advice you should take to heart is that you'll get over her, eventually. Unless you have mental health issues and become obsessed; but you didn't mention anything of the like so that is not likely the case.
Nothing lasts forever. Enjoy what you can... then move on.
I feel angry & feel I can't cope with it. Any adice?
Hmmm.. how about some benztropine and a few clonazapam?
How you looking these days? Maybe get some creadrive and workout real hard. Women like it when we are cut.
Honestly.. you should have knocked her up... sucks huh?
Do you think she has any regrets or a conscience? Or is this simply a mean person!
People change over time. Thoughts, feelings, emotions.. they all evolve over and over, redefining a person. No one is ever the same all their lives. As we learn and grow... we sometimes need to touch on feelings we haven't been familiar with.
Old feelings must be put to rest so that new feelings may emerge. You got 5 years out of her... Enjoy what you had and seek better or fall into emotional instability and become a fatty like Hexi.
Is this worth pursuing? Or let it go? Do you think she has regrets?
This foundation of your relationship is shattered. Anything you pursue after the collapse is fragile and will eventually explode on itself.
It's your choice though. Can you live without a cheating whore?
Not trying to be whinny,trying to educate myself for my next relationship. Its hard to find true love & i beleive I found it. How would you approach someone like this to sit down and talk about this or just let it go. Once a cheater always a cheater!How do you prevent this from ever happening again?Can you??Are all women two faced!! Are they about sex,money & Fun!What about committment??
I can't answer you that, being what i am but women, just like men, are individuals and there will be assholes on both sides. You live and learn to know the signs before you get attached and in the future, won't be in this situation.
Thats just it, I saw no signs. Complete 180 degree turn. Maybe her friends filled her head with BS. Shes 50 !!! Not sure!