Firstly, many thanks for providing us this opportunity. It is really an
oasis to our problems
My question is simple (maybe common) and clear:
I am asking my sister to do me a favor. I tried to explain her that I am
asking her because there is no one else who could help me on this matter.
She told me tha she will do it even if it is very difficult for her,
due to her strict work conditions (it really was).
However, while she was hearing me what I would appreciate to do in order to help me for she was
mumbling and mutter discontentedly. I responded:...please don't this to
me...and she said...well you are pushing me and you are asking to be
polite with you...that isn't so easy
This behavior finally droved me crazy....So...before I get finished my last sentence I
finally said her...well I dont' want to do anything. Thank you and
closed the phone.
It is really so annoying and she makes me feel that I must be punished by her
behavior because she is doing me this favor. Her particular behavior makes me finally canceling her
help even if she is the only one who could help me. And
believe me I need her help right now...
I would greatly appreciate if you could share with me your thoughts with
this trivial but so important matter for me right now. How to behave so
as to have a good relationship with my sister on such matters
Many thanks in advance and sorry for my english...hope you understand my
I am looking forward to your reply at your earliest convenience