Hey Rusty....your wife used you & blamed you for her mistakes..you can find better my friend..I can't believe she did that to you..I was was married for 3 years..we had a lovely daughter Samantha....we got divorced....she was cheating too..I have had a girlfriend for 23 years..we argue sometimes but...I'm happy..she tolerates me. to a point...lol....wish you the best my friend