Re: Terrified of/obsessed with the death of family members
Your problem seems way too deepseethed to be discussed in a place like this. I suggest you find a therapist you can work with comfortably. You cannot rationalize the fear away because in reality, accidents can happen so you need to work with someone to help you cope with the reality of our mortality rather than make-believe that everything will always be fine.
Re: Terrified of/obsessed with the death of family members
Very good advice, Hexi. I agree with it, and hope that Jethro will find a good therapist to help her work through this problem, which, as you suggest, very likely has to do, at least in part, with acceptance of mortality.
Re: Terrified of/obsessed with the death of family members
Nothing does be happening to yours BROTHER. If you DOES worryes about DEATH in LIFE then you does makes what you FEAR happen already. You not can enjoy life if you DOES fears all time so when you DOES worryes about death it maybe does comes EASYER but also you remembers maybe that you did WASTED that time with WORRYING. So looks outside there will always be new day COMMING up.
I also thinks that maybe you does should go to therapy too.