Well i'm no expert on this subject but i'll put my 2 cents in anyway.
I think the best plan to handle this is sit down and just have an indepth conversation about how your both feeling about this conversation. If it were as easy is flicking a switch to get you going in the morning then i'm sure he'd take it. Being a male myself i know this may sound a little hipacritical but some guys get pretty lazy of a morning and don't really feel like doing anything. Perhaps some joint foreplay positions to help you's both out. Have a look on some site's and find some easy positions that you and your partner will be able to get into early in the morning. There are many other ways of helping you get some attention to make things more comfortable, this is just a simple one for start. I hope it helps.
Daniel, grats on coming about wour completely commentate. Talk it out. How about.. feel it out. Try some compassion and lust t go along with that boring existence you pathetic share. Then she can go find a real lover.