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Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

You know that got me thinking actually. Do I dislike sex? Yes and no. I dislike when I'm emotionally void. During this time I'm focused on myself, my own dreams and accomplishments. Pornography during this time is my choice of sexual gratification.

When I hit a downward curve in my life, like a depression, emotions come into play, this is when I get sexual towards others. During this time I want sex but without the intimacy. I will go hypersexual and during this time my testosterone levels will rise. But I must stress I'm not Bi-polar, I'm aware I don't have that.

It is indeed a mystery.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Im DOES thinking that maybe you just DOSSENT relationship with MANY peoples too much and DIFFERENT people so maybe you not UNDERSTANDS them and that why you DOES dislikes them. have you TRYED praying to God? im DOESNT means you must does it im just say it maybe should be done because it probably DOES helps. and maybe you DOESNT have experienced world so much so you doesnt knows what LOSING does means and that why you does maybe think you is better and not can LOSES? some PEOPLES does says for example they could do this and they could do this too but they DOESNT do it and if they DID tryed then maybe they realize they NOT can always do it..

im DOES thinking that you did gived not honest opinion of you either because yours INTRODUCTION text was very BLACK AND WHITE and it did SOUNDED like you maybe WANTED be with that symptom? like you DID maybe exaggerates a bit or EXPLAIN simple things in MUCH BIGGER ways? im DOESNT says you did but it DID sounded like it.

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Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Are you happy light bearer?

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

I look in the mirror a lot as well. Mimicing different expressions to maximize their effect on others. Also... I'm just beatiful. I can't help but play with it hair, workout, and tan. My friends always say I should be a bouncer but really being. Bartender sounds prime to me.

Sorry was my ego rambling off again? You should see this tan. But in no way am I repulsed by a nicely taken care of body. I enjoy the finer things in life. I can appriciate sexy.

You are an inferior individual and your ego knows it. How old are you? What mental evolution are you maturing through?

You need friends. Someone needs to balance you out.

Website: Whitewolf.maxforum.org

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

To the person above. No I am not happy nor am I sad, just indifferent.

Whitewolf


You are an inferior individual and your ego knows it. How old are you? What mental evolution are you maturing through?

You need friends. Someone needs to balance you out.


You know I had friends once, I got bored of them and stopped socializing with them. I'm late 20's, as I already said.

I suppose I don't want friends because I see people for what they are. Everybody wants something in return. The more friends you have the more potential enemies, and that's the truth.

I don't see myself as inferior, but you'll have to take my word for that.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

lightbearer
To the person above. No I am not happy nor am I sad, just indifferent.


I thought as much, but I figured I'd ask out of politeness anyway.

To answer your original question, yes, you do seem narcissistic. But you knew that already. Although I can't be sure of this, it seems to me that being narcissistic is like living alone in a hall of mirrors, only you don't actually see yourself. You see a twisted, fun house and exaggerated version of yourself, one that often has little to no reality outside of your own imagination. It sounds like a needlessly sad way to be.

Joy, peace and wise self esteem are all to be found outside of the boundaries of the egoic self, in the giving and receiving of love. But I know better than to attempt to talk people out of their self imposed prisons. So enjoy your empty hall of mirrors Lucifer. Seriously. Enjoy it! Eat, drink and be merry! You might as well.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Let's make one thing clear. My reference to Lucifer was not on a delusional sense. I do not see myself as the devil incarnate walking around with an invisible pitchfork. It was merely an analogy, in regards to the character being discarded into the depths of hell for having too much pride.

I live in my own hell for much the same reason in terms of pride, but what can I do? Do I have to fake inferiority? In other words do I have to pretend to want what the average person wants?

The things that appeal to most do not appeal to me. I simply wants loads of money and sexual encounters without affection. I also just want time to focus on my looks, because it really is big worry that this body will never be young forever.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

lightbearer
Let's make one thing clear. My reference to Lucifer was not on a delusional sense.


No, it was just in a grandiose sense, which fits narcissism to a tee.

I live in my own hell for much the same reason in terms of pride...


What's the hell you are talking about? Is it other people?

The things that appeal to most do not appeal to me. I simply wants loads of money and sexual encounters without affection. I also just want time to focus on my looks, because it really is big worry that this body will never be young forever.


Ok then. Do that. Is there a problem?

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Daniel Birdick

What's the hell you are talking about? Is it other people?


It is other people and the limitations of my own physical body I'm forced to possess. I am misanthropic, I dislike humanity because it represents imperfection. Imperfection is something I cannot escape from, I see it in others all the time. I just wish everybody was beautiful, the fact that ugliness exists angers me, it ruins my day so to speak. Age is something I'm forced to live with, I'm angry because it wasn't my choice to age.

I'm angry at my sexuality because it means I'm attracted to others. It feels like an insult to myself to not be attracted to me, yet I cannot escape my sexual urges towards the opposite sex but I wish this wasn't so.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Um… Yeah… Alrighty then. I think 666 was right. You sound delusional to me. Good luck with that.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Daniel Birdick
Um… Yeah… Alrighty then. I think 666 was right. You sound delusional to me. Good luck with that.


Of course you're incorrect, but if you want to think I'm delusional I'll let you think it. My own evaluation of myself concludes that I am indeed a misanthropic introvert, with idealistic fantasies of perfectionism.

I will also admit one of my reasons for telling a story was attention seeking purposes. I hope none of you take offence, I was just bored, it's as simple as that.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

lightbearer

I will also admit one of my reasons for telling a story was attention seeking purposes. I hope none of you take offence, I was just bored, it's as simple as that.


Which is why i didn't reply. The motives of people like you are obvious to the point of boring. Narcissists are fascinating creatures though. Breaking one is like shattering a mountain made of glass, often resulting in severe mental instability. Alternatively, scarring a narcs face is like cutting out their heart.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?


I will also admit one of my reasons for telling a story was attention seeking purposes. I hope none of you take offence, I was just bored, it's as simple as that.[/quote


That's what I mean by delusional: you imagine that your compelling need for attention and your compelling desire to show your ass to everyone is due to "boredom." What a crock!

You are a total drag, fool.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

ror666

I will also admit one of my reasons for telling a story was attention seeking purposes. I hope none of you take offence, I was just bored, it's as simple as that.[/quote


That's what I mean by delusional: you imagine that your compelling need for attention and your compelling desire to show your ass to everyone is due to "boredom." What a crock!

You are a total drag, fool.


Firstly before calling me a fool learn to quote a message properly.

Secondly, try not to resort to childish insults. We're all adults here I assume, so lets all act like like adults.

Thirdly, do not take this thread personally as to me you were merely an object, you're just words to me nothing more. Anybody with half a brain would know this thread emanates and permeates attention seeking behaviour, and now you have to answer to yourself why you couldn't figure that out before I revealed it to you.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Yes. That IS what I mean by delusional.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

lightbearer
The things that appeal to most do not appeal to me. I simply wants loads of money and sexual encounters without affection. I also just want time to focus on my looks, because it really is big worry that this body will never be young forever.

That sounds pretty average to me. Who doesn't want loads of money, sex without consequences, and a young and attractive body?

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

LOOL.

Yes, I think you yourself know you are quite narcissistic. I've read and studied about narcissistic individuals before, but I've honestly never come across one to your degree.

You are, to say the least, fascinating.

So when you do grow old, because everyone eventually does... what then? What will be the purpose of your life? Just look at your studio portfolio pictures until you wilt in a nursing home?

Also, I think you are also suffering from what professionals call delusions of grandeur. Or maybe I shouldn't use the word 'suffer' because you seem to enjoy thinking you are better than everyone else. And yes, sounds like you may have a personality disorder. Does that bother you at all?

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Cassandra
LOOL.

Yes, I think you yourself know you are quite narcissistic. I've read and studied about narcissistic individuals before, but I've honestly never come across one to your degree.

You are, to say the least, fascinating.

So when you do grow old, because everyone eventually does... what then? What will be the purpose of your life? Just look at your studio portfolio pictures until you wilt in a nursing home?

Also, I think you are also suffering from what professionals call delusions of grandeur. Or maybe I shouldn't use the word 'suffer' because you seem to enjoy thinking you are better than everyone else. And yes, sounds like you may have a personality disorder. Does that bother you at all?


This entire world bothers me woman. I have to grow old and that's enough suffering, I don't need people rubbing it in.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

Okay, maybe it's time for me to come clean. Basically everything in this thread was a pack of lies. There is a few reasons for this so bear with me people. The main reason was boredom, that's the truth.That's not all, I was trying to experiment with an arrogant persona, and that's easier to do behind a computer then in person. I understand arrogance and self-love are the keys to self- destruction, best to be humble in life but I wanted to see anyway.

I decided to read up on Narcissistic personality disorder, then implement the symptoms onto myself (and I'm surprised nobody caught onto this apart from person). It was to see how easy people can be taken in to give wrong diagnosis over the internet, it happens a lot, not just on this site. People should never diagnose themselves with anything, if you're in distress see somebody.

I don't have Narcissistic personality disorder, I'm a nice person, but I wanted to see how influenced people can be by simple words. It seemed to work because I got a lot of responses, when I knew the thread was drying up I admitted it was for attention, this was to create more responses, even if they were abusive.

For me, this thread was a psychological experiment and it did work. But I'm not proud of it, It's just words on a computer screen. I hope nobody takes offence.

Re: Do I seem quite narcissistic?

It was kind of obvious hen you got hyperbolic with the bible in your name and the rain od bloo etc lol. Had it not been for that paragraph, pretty convincing!

I do think you need to find somethign else to do with your time though then making up stories on a ask the therapist forum!