This girl that i have been really good friends with for a while is starting to like me. I am 17 years old and i feel like my penis hasn't grown since i was born, or so it seems. It ranges from 1 inch to maybe like 1.5 on a good day. Its girth is maybe 1 inch. Its like a still have a babies penis. I have grown arm pit hair since i was 14, penis hair since i was 15 and facial hair when i was 15.5. When erect i am about 2.5-3 inches and maybe 1.25-1.5 inch girth. This girl is going to want to see my penis and maybe give me oral. When is my penis going to go to be a "man's" or is it ever going to? [:-?] any advice of what i should do? Thnks
Sexual development is a harsh mistress, and funny. Though most men have done most of their growing down there by your age, not everyone does, and only time will tell.
But I'm not going to lie and say that the measurments you have given, if accurate, are of average size, though they wouldn't qualify as a disorder either. And you may still grow
My best advice is to try to see that almost everyone has parts of themselves they don't like, and very few ever truly accept themselves, which is taking your sense of happiness out of the hands and expectations of others and making it your own. It's a long journey that takes many years, but everyone is on it, whether they hate their face, size, skin, eyes, voice or mentality.
So your going to feel bad about something about yourself, if not this then something else, until you just give up and accept yourself. And don't worry about how hard this can seem.
Having said that, it is one of the more personal things for a western man to have to deal with. I feel for you. The old prayer "grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change" says it all here. you might find Dr. Robertss article here interesting.
Look on the bright side, when I was 17 I had no good female friends, let alone any who'd say they wanted to see my penis and 'maybe give me oral' (!?!).
If your still nervous, might I suggest you consider giving her oral? That requires no penis what so ever and can for some women offer a more pleasurable experience than they would receive from any penis
So do you think i should not show her it? and try to avoid the situation?
So my parents went out so i put some porn on and got an erection. i measured from a little above where the penis connects to the body and it was a little over 5 inches. and the girth was hard, but with a string i think it was a little over 3 inchs?
whats normal? and will i still get laughed at for this?
thanks for ur time
Dude, the normal range is from 4.5 to 6.5 for males (based primarily on white males I believe)
Did you not not think to get hard before you measure? Flaccid size varies more than errect size ammong males, check this out
Your size is nothing at all to worry about. Most men, including this one, are in the same range, and don't have any problems.
The hammer is big enough to do the job, you just need to learn how to hit the nail on the head, so to speak. For which you want practice and not procrastination. Thus, I certaintly suggest you don't hold back from showing her the goods if she wants to see them.
(And thanks Dr. Robert!)
wow this is a big relief. Is there a chance that my penis will still grow? and what about condoms? do u suggest a certain one that is safe+ no lube+ overall good at not slipping/breaking.
Is it wrong to also get hard alot? and i mean alot...
sometimes ill just get hard in school for no reason. i will be taking a test or just watching a powerpoint and i wont be thinking about any of the girls in my class or having sex with anyone. I just get hard and i will also get hard when im around a girl i like. and its not like i dont masturbate, i do it a couple times a week when i have a chance
You will continue to get hard, for no reason what so ever, for decades to come, although it starts to drop as you hit your twenties. It is completely normal. I have actually started to find it funny as I get older.
Maybe you will still grow, maybe you won't
I'm glad your relieved. Any condom you can buy in a pharmacist will be safe. buy a few different ones and see what feels right before hand by yourself (tightness and so on). Please read the instructions that come with them, you might think its obvious but there is a technique to putting them on.
I'm glad your relieved.
Look at it on the bright side.. if your penis is too big, then people might notice whenever it gets erect. but because it's small you don't have to worry about people noticing. so in the long run you will be psychologically healthier than men with penises that are too large